mish him!!

October 1, 2009 at 16:05 (love story, puisi)

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Why can’t I speak when I have so much to tell?

Why can’t I write when I have so much in mind?

Why can’t I sing when there’s music in my heart?

Why can’t I dance when there’s rythm in the air?

Too many words left unspoken

Too many things left undone

Why can’t it be and why can’t I?

For all I know this pain deep inside

Took the gladness from my heart.

Is this the pain of missing you?

Is this the reason behind it all?

Hear the agony of my heart

Longing for you and for your touch

Feeling your lips, feeling your face

Missing your kisses and warm embrace.

When will the waiting ever be over?

For as long as were apart I can never be whole

Oh! My Dearest Love

I just want you to know

That my heart is aching because

“I’M MISSING YOU!”

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surat cinta yg kr3atif…

July 28, 2009 at 16:05 (love story)

Read this “HATE letter”. It is so funny and creative. This is a loveletter from a boy to a girl…. However, the girl’s father does not like him and want them stop their relationship……and so..the boy wrote this letter to the girl..he knows that the girl’s father will definitely read this letter..

1 “The great love that I have for you
2 is gone, and I find my dislike for you
3 grows every day. When I see you,
4 I do not even like your face;
5 the one thing that I want to do is to
6 look at other girls. I never wanted to
7 marry you. Our last conversation
8 was very boring and has not
9 made me look forward to seeing you again.
10 You think only of yourself.
11 If we were married, I know that I would find
12 life very difficult, and I would have no
13 pleasure in living with you. I have a heart
14 to give, but it is not something that
15 I want to give to you. No one is more
16 foolish and selfish than you, and you are not
17 able to care for me and help me.
18 I sincerely want you to understand that
19 I speak the truth. You will do me a favor
20 if you think this is the end. Do not try
21 to answer this. Your letters are full of
22 things that do not interest me. You have no
23 true love for me. Good-bye! Believe me,
24 I do not care for you. Please do not think that
25 I am still your boyfriend.”

So bad!! However, before handing over the letter to the girl, the boy told the girl to “READ BETWEEN THE LINES”, meaning-only to read 1.3.5.7.9.11.13.15.17.19.21.23.25. (Odd Numbers) So..Please try reading it again! It’s so smart & sweet…. :)

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mengekalkan hubungan jarak jauh.. <3

June 6, 2009 at 16:05 (info, love story)

Bercinta jarak jauh bukan satu perkara yang mudah ditangani kerana
apabila orang yang begitu disayangi berada jauh dari sisi, hati merindu
dendam dan kepercayaan terhadap pasangan harus menebal agar tidak
dimamah cemburu ketika menunggu waktu untuk bersama kembali.

disini saya menghidangkan tips yang boleh diguna pakai oleh pencinta
jarak jauh dalam mengekalkan hubungan cinta masing-masing walaupun
jarak menjadi penghalang.

1. Jelas dengan Harapan dan Batasan
Sebelum bermula untuk meneroka dunia cinta jarak jauh, pasangan harus
mempunyai harapan dan batasan. Pada Julai 2007, Zaki terpaksa berpindah
ke Kuala Lumpur kerana mendapat tawaran sebagai pengurus di sebuah
syarikat swasta dengan gaji RM72 ribu setahun. Teman wanitanya,
Khatijah tidak boleh turut serta kerana mempunyai komitmen kerja di
Johor Bahru dan mereka belum merancang untuk mendirikan rumahtangga
dalam tempoh yang terdekat. Untuk memulakan perhubungan cinta jarak
jauh mereka, Zaki dan Khatijah membuat perjanjian untuk telefon at
least sekali sehari tidak kira bagaimana sibuk pun mereka. Mereka
berjanji tidak akan meluahkan masalah dengan teman lain yang berlainan
jantina kerana apabila berjauhan, hati vulnerable dengan perhatian yang
diberi orang lain. Jika mereka punya cuti, masing-masing akan cuba
untuk berjumpa. Jadi dengan mengenalpasti harapan dan batasan, pasangan
akan lebih memahami apa yang perlu dan apa yang jangan dilakukan ketika
berjauhan.

2. Menghargai Kebebasan
Jangan sentiasa murung dan berteman airmata ketika berjauhan akibat
dibuai rindu yang amat sangat. Dia berada jauh dari sisi, tentu sekali
perasaan rindu begitu kuat sekali tetapi jika rindu itu perlu diratap
sehingga membawa mati atau sekurang-kurang membutakan mata anda
sendiri, bukankah tidak wajar begitu? Ketika berjauhan daripada
pasangan anda, hargai kebebasan yang dikecapi dengan melakukan
aktiviti-aktiviti yang membuat anda ceria seperti menonton wayang
dengan teman-teman, membaca buku kegemaran ketika sunyi atau menonton
bola hingga lewat pagi. Johan yang berjauhan dengan teman wanitanya,
dia sering menghabiskan masa dengan X-box kerana dia tahu ketika dia
bersama dengan Hanim, X-box perlu disimpan dahulu. Menghargai kebebasan
ketika berjauhan akan membentuk diri anda untuk menjadi seorang
individu yang matang dan dalam pada masa yang sama membina komitmen
anda terhadap perhubungan.

3. Luahkan Perasaanmu
Kalau dekat-dekat terasa malu untuk meluahkan apa yang terpendam,
inilah masanya untuk intim dengan pasanganmu. Walaupun berada jauh
antara satu sama lain, kata-kata indah yang diluahkan boleh menjadi
penawar rindu anda kepada si dia. Sesekali guna balik pos biasa dengan
menghantar surat cara lama kepada pasangan anda berbanding dengan emel.
Nyatakan bagaimana perasaan anda terhadap pasangan anda di dalam surat
itu. “Ingat lagi masa kita baru jumpa dulu? Abang tak berani pandang
muka Ina. Tapi Ina suka tengok Abang malu-malu.” Luahkan apa yang
terpendam dan kongsikan perasaanmu bersama si dia kerana kata-kata
mampu memanah jiwa, memupuk asmara.

4. Pancawarnakan Kehidupanmu
Untuk suami isteri yang berjauhan, jangan malu bercerita tentang seks
atau berkongsi fantasi ketika berjauhan. “Kalau abang ada di rumah
sekarang, sayang nak buat apa pada abang?” Dengan berkongsi fantasi dan
keinginan, pasangan suami isteri akan dihujani chemistry yang
mengujakan! Untuk mereka yang masih bujang, hantar kad yang menarik
atau kadang-kadang mungkin boleh kejutkan dia dengan kiriman bunga atau
hadiah. Ketika pulang dari kerja, Zeti menjerit suka apabila terlihat
sebuah bungkusan diterima daripada buah hatinya di Sarawak yang
mengandungi sepasang baju dengan nota, “Aku merinduimu”.

5. Percayalah….
Percaya perlu menebal dalam diri. Tak guna bertunjangkan cemburu dalam
melayari perhubungan jarak jauh. Perasaan prasangka dan tak percaya
hanya akan merosakkan perhubungan. Apabila menelefon Din, Farah selalu
merengek kenapa mereka terpaksa berpisah dan betapa sukarnya
perhubungan jarak jauh. Daripada merungut tentang kesukaran apabila
berjauhan, mulakan perbualan dengan bertanya khabar tentang dia dan apa
aktiviti yang dia lakukan. Sentiasa ceria dan maintain positivity agar
anda tidak bosan walaupun berjauhan.

Secara ringkasnya,
bukan jarak yang menjadi sebab terputusnya hubungan, tetapi kurang
memahami pasangan dan kurang komitmen dalam perhubungan sering menjadi
faktor penyebab. Tidak ada apa yang perlu digusarkan apabila berjauhan
jika masing-masing komited dengan pasangan masing-masing dan berusaha
untuk memastikan perhubungan yang sihat dan berkekalan.

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how women think…

March 31, 2009 at 16:05 (info, love story, motivasi)

FINE
This is the word women use to end an argument when they feel they are right and you need to shut up. Never use “fine” to describe how a woman looks – this will cause you to have one of those arguments.

FIVE MINUTES
This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your football game is going to last before you take out the trash, so it’s an even trade.

NOTHING
This means “something,” and you should be on your toes. “Nothing” is usually used to describe the feeling a woman has of wanting to turn you inside out, upside down, and backwards. “Nothing” usually signifies an argument that will last “Five Minutes” and end with “Fine”

GO AHEAD (With Raised Eyebrows)

This is a dare. One that will result in a woman getting upset over “Nothing” and will end with the word “Fine”

GO AHEAD (Normal Eyebrows)
This means “I give up” or “do what you want because I don’t care” You will get a “Raised Eyebrow Go Ahead” in just a few minutes, followed by “Nothing” and “Fine” and she will talk to you in about “Five Minutes” when she cools off. LOUD SIGH This is not actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A “Loud Sigh” means she thinks you are an idiot at that moment, and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you over “Nothing”

SOFT SIGH
Again, not a word, but a non-verbal statement. “Soft Sighs” mean that she is content. Your best bet is to not move or breathe, and she will stay content.

THAT’S OKAY
This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can make to a man. “That’s Okay” means that she wants to think long and hard before paying you back for whatever it is that you have done. “That’s Okay” is often used with the word “Fine” and in conjunction with a “Raised Eyebrow.”

GO AHEAD
At some point in the near future! re, you are going to be in some mighty big trouble. PLEASE DO This is not a statement, it is an offer. A woman is giving you the chance to come up with whatever excuse or reason you have for doing whatever it is that you have done. You have a fair chance with the truth, so be careful and you shouldn’t get a “That’s Okay”

THANKS
A woman is thanking you. Do not faint. Just say you’re welcome. THANKS A LOT This is much different from “Thanks.” A woman will say, “Thanks A Lot” when she is really ticked off at you. It signifies that you have offended her in some callous way, and will be followed by the “Loud Sigh.” Be careful not to ask what is wrong after the “Loud Sigh,” as she will only tell you “Nothing”

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three words..

March 8, 2009 at 16:05 (love story)

Girl: Do you really love me?
Boy: Of course I do.
Girl: I wanna hear you say it.
Boy: I don’t have to.
Girl: Why not?
Boy: Because…
Girl: I just want to hear you say it in words.
Boy: I can’t…
The girl started to cry softly and said:
Then you don’t love me…
The two continued to walk in silence. They
reached the girls home.
Girl: Why?
Boy: Do you really want to know?
Girl: (hesitantly) Yes.
He hugged her gently, kissed the tip of her nose
and whispered in her ear,
“Because three words are not enough…”

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25 actioNs tO say ‘I LOVE YOU’

January 22, 2009 at 16:05 (love story, motivasi)

1. Place notes in your lover’s lunch telling him how much you love him.

2. Page you sweetheart with an I Love You page.

3. Give her a soft kiss.

4. Make everyday things special.

5. Give your love a little note or sending him an e-mail with a poem in
it.

6. Listen to her every word.

7. Making a list of everything you love about them. No matter how
stupid.

8. Spend quality time with the one you love.

9. Have flowers delivered with a note attached saying simply, “I love
you.”

10. Give unexpected hugs and kisses in unexpected places.

11. Cook them their favorite meal.

12. Hold each other when you fall asleep.

13. Just be together.

14. Give your love a long hard kiss on the lips, followed by a gift.

15. Sending romantic postcards on a daily basis.

16. Get off work early and surprise your sweetheart with a dozen roses
and dinner, just because.

17. Spend all week thinking of something special for the weekend and
then… do it!

18. Give him a loving smile from across the room.

19. Draw or obtain a new romantic picture of two lovers in each others
grasp and give it to your love as a reminder of your passion.

20. If you live quite a distance from your love, surprise them with a
visit.

21. When she is asleep in the morning, cover her with rose petals and
wake her up to an I love you breakfast in bed.

22. Secretly write S-H-M-I-L-Y anywhere your lover will find it. SHMILY=
See How Much I Love You.

23. Have a romantic weekend.

24. For a week, smothering your spouse with all the small intimate
things they like.

25. Do a simple act of kindness, such as a backrub when he feels sick,
to brighten his day.

p.s…klu aku kawin nnt, aku pakse husband aku wat sume ni…hahahah..sgt kejam…

p.s..aku adew wat test tok taw tahap cemburu au..resulnye 65%..You’re a pretty jealous person, and you’ve started to let it really effect your life. While it’s natural to feel a little envious of what people have, it’s never healthy to take it to these extremes. Focus on what you’ve got going on. And improve on the things you don’t like. Being truly happy with yourself is the only way to chase out the green eyed monster!

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thE taLk

January 21, 2009 at 16:05 (love story)

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Boy: I need someone to talk to.
Girl: I’m always here for you.
Boy: I know.
Girl: What’s wrong?
Boy: I like her so much.
Girl: Talk to her.
Boy: I don’t know. She won’t ever like me.
Girl: Don’t say that…you’re amazing.
Boy: I just want her to know how I feel.
Girl: Then tell her.
Boy: She won’t like me.
Girl: How do you know that?
Boy: I can just tell her…
Girl: Well just tell her.
Boy: What should I say?
Girl: Tell her how much you like her.
Boy: I tell her daily.
Girl: What do you mean?
Boy: I’m always with her…I love her.
Girl: I know how you feel. I have the same problem…but he’ll never like me.
Boy: Wait. Who do you like?
Girl: Oh, some boy.
Boy: Oh, she won’t like me either.
Girl: She does.
Boy: How do you know?
Girl: Because who wouldn’t like you?
Boy: You.
Girl: You’re wrong. I love you.
Boy: I love you too.
Girl: So are you going to talk to her?
Boy: I just did.

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silent love…

January 3, 2009 at 16:05 (love story)

love

From the very Begining, the girl’s family objected strongly on her dating this guy. Saying that it has got to do with family background & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him.

Due to family’s pressure, the couple quarrel very often. Though the girl love the guy deeply, but she always ask him: “How deep is your love for me?”

As the guy is not good with his words, this often cause the girl to be very upset. With that & the family’s pressure, the girl often vent her anger on him. As for him, he only endure it in silence.

After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies in overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: “I’m not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I’ll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?”

The girl agreed, & with the guy’s determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he leave, they got engaged.

The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it’s hard, but both never thought of giving up.

One day, while the girl was on her way to work, she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realised that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She has lost her voices…

The doctors says that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents’ comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down.

During the stay in hospital, besides silence cry,…..it’s still just silence cry that companied her. Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart everytime it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know. & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer.

With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions & millions of reply, and countless of phonecalls,.. all the girl could do, besides crying, is still crying….

The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy.

With a new environment, the girl learn sign language & started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One day, her friend came & told her that he’s back. She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn’t anymore news of him.

A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy’s wedding. The girl was shattered. When she open the letter, she saw her name in it instead.

When she was about to ask her friend what’s going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her. He used sign language telling her “I’ve spent a year’s time to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I’ve not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You. With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled.

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